Know Yourself - Critically Analyze Your Personality.

People always attracted to things they personally like. Actually they get the inner satisfaction - a psychological process runs behind. In the similar way, we easily get attached to other people, if they match with our chemistry, think like us, caring, give importance and share ideas openly, without having some interest behind. We take decisions on our own perceptions, most of the time it happens that we like the person not having good repo in the society, the reason is he/she actually sincere with us and show very open and clear relationship with us.

Thinking and perceptions are developed through many ways; first of all the environment we live in, our family and relatives, own experiences by the times and from the nature - there are some natural abilities have by birth. All these shape us a human being with having a unique personality. Whenever we find other person having similar qualities, as us, the good relationship builds. Religion has much influence on our lives. But the most important influential is our own nature - God gifted and experiences - how we feel, how we take things and how we perceive. That's why people having different backgrounds and religious concepts come very close to each other.

So try to find what are your inner qualities, what you actually get from nature. This will help you lot in making best decisions in life. If you want others like and praise you 10 % more, start praising yourself 15 % more. Praising self not means liking without judgment, but finding of what you have well and bad.

You do many critical analyses in life on many things, so now try to do analysis on yourself. Must think on yourself at least 15 minutes daily and find out what you do right – personally satisfied from and what is happening wrong – you feel disturbance from. Start focusing more on doing things you get satisfaction and try to eliminate those make you uncomfortable or disturbing you. After few days all bad habits and the things you not actually want to do or results tension and anxiety automatically start removing from yourself. And you will feel better and more satisfied.

Think positively and always make choices not depend on one single solution. Thanks to Allah for the beautiful life you have.

How to Get the Peace of Mind

Instead of thinking and planning always for future, look at present too - is there missing something or happening wrong, are the people around you satisfied with you or their expectations meet or you response well to those who care and love you without any reason. Feel the moments your are in and try to make these moments memorable, you will get peace in life.

Many times it happens that we have become so busy in our lives and even forget that there are people attached with us who need our care and have much importance. After losing something, we get realised that actually we did nothing and spent the time in useless activities. Make priorities in life, struggling for better future is not bad but forgetting present is wrong, every moment you have spend has value and time that had gone never came back. 

Be sincere with yourself, there are lots of things you can't do in life but there are many others that you don't try to focus or think on. Know youself, and know your abilities, put efforts where you are strong - have knowledge and desire too and feel good while doing.

Instead of eliminating weaknesses, it is better to strengthen those areas where we are good. Your one good habbit or quality can hide your all weaknesses. Develop yourself more loving and caring, wealth is not only solution of peace and better living, but just one necessity. There are lots of people who are financially too strong but still running for peace and comforts.

I am responsible for anything happens with me not anyother, think like that and you will get peace of mind. And when you develop such thinkings, all your problems would be solved. Life is so beautiful and charming never waste it. Care your relations and spend most of the time with those who have passions for you.

             Whenever you feel that your prayer not accepted never lose hope beacuse Allah has something better for you. Thanks to Allah for such a beautiful life you have.

Improving Self-Esteem

First thing is to improve yourself. Like yourself more than before day by day and you will feel difference. Self-esteem is related to the internal confidence that someone has on him/herself.
Strat praising yourself......but in a positive way - try to find out your key strengths and then weaknesses. Point out or even write down in a ranking who actually you are....what are the areas you are good and whar are your weak points...
Then instead of wasting time on eliminating your weaker points start sharpening your strengths. Everyone has some God gifted abilities that can't be skilled. So just thinking on how to eliminate weaknesses is a wasting of time. sharp your strengths as like, these becomes your keys of success and hide your weaknesses. This will lead to increase in your self-esteem.
Always think on letters; I will, I do, I am responsible, I have the ability, I never stop, I never lose hope, I must struggle, its my dream, its my passion.
You know praising oneself is an art - if you would liked to become more lovable or likeable 10 % more, start praising yourself 15 % more than before. Make your habit to spend time in front of mirror. Talk to yourself.
Develop strong emotions  that further lead to the desired passion that define your destination- give you success.